Others assuming your life is perfect because of where you studied.
OTHERS ASSUMING YOUR LIFE IS PERFECT BECAUSE OF WHERE YOU STUDIED.
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It’s a narrative many of us know all too well. The moment someone learns your alma mater, their eyes often widen, a knowing smile appears, and suddenly, your life is painted with a brush of effortless success, devoid of struggle or doubt. The implicit assumption is that a degree from a top institution is a golden ticket to a flawless existence, a life free from the everyday anxieties and imperfections that plague everyone else. But we, who have walked those hallowed halls, know the truth is far more complex.
The weight of that brand, while undoubtedly opening doors, also carries an invisible burden. It's the pressure to constantly excel, to never falter, to justify the immense privilege and opportunity bestowed upon us. It’s the internal voice that whispers, "You must be perfect," amplified by external expectations. This can be isolating, making it difficult to share vulnerabilities or admit to personal or professional challenges without feeling like you're somehow letting the "brand" down. We're often perceived as having it all figured out, when in reality, we're navigating the same uncertainties as anyone else, just with a different kind of spotlight.
Our identity is shaped by the rigorous academics, the vibrant communities, and the incredible opportunities we encountered. These experiences are undoubtedly transformative. Yet, the true journey lies in understanding that while these institutions shaped parts of us, they do not, and should not, define our entire being. Our struggles, our growth, our authentic selves exist beyond that prestigious affiliation. It's crucial to reclaim our narrative, acknowledging the challenges, celebrating the small victories, and proving that perfection is an illusion, regardless of where you earned your diploma.