Feeling aimless even when “on track.”
FEELING AIMLESS EVEN WHEN “ON TRACK.”
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We graduate, armed with prestigious degrees and a blueprint for success. Years of relentless effort within the Ivy bubble often feel like a perfect setup for a linear, upward trajectory. Yet, for many, the transition from campus to career is a surprisingly weird and disorienting journey nobody fully warned us about. Suddenly, that celebrated path doesn't always feel like our path.
Our identity, once so intricately woven with our academic achievements, clubs, and alma mater's prestige, feels… different. This identity crisis is real. When the external validation of campus life fades, you're left asking, "Who am I now, outside of that context?" It's a profound reinvention that can feel isolating, especially when surrounded by perceived success.
Many of us find ourselves feeling aimless, adrift, even when ticking all the societal boxes. The "dream job" might feel just like a job. The pressure to constantly ascend can silence honest reflection, making it hard to admit when you're feeling unfulfilled despite being "on track." But this disquiet isn't a flaw; it's an invitation to explore. It’s an opportunity to redefine success on your own terms, to pivot, and to discover an authentic self beyond the expectations. You are not alone in this journey of figuring it out.