Being asked, “So what do you do now?” like it better be impressive.
BEING ASKED, “SO WHAT DO YOU DO NOW?” LIKE IT BETTER BE IMPRESSIVE.
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That question hits different when you’ve walked these hallowed halls. There’s an unspoken expectation, a weight of a brand we carry, not just on our transcripts but in every interaction. We’ve been told we’re among the best, equipped to change the world, destined for greatness. And suddenly, "what do you do now?" isn't just a casual inquiry; it feels like an audit of our entire potential, a demand for an answer that justifies the journey and the label.
It's a pressure many of us know intimately. The desire to live up to the "Ivy identity" can be both a powerful motivator and an isolating burden. We push ourselves, often silently, to achieve careers that sound impressive, roles that spark admiration, narratives that affirm the perceived value of our education. But what if "impressive" doesn't align with "fulfilling"? What if our true path is quieter, less celebrated, yet profoundly ours?
Remember, the incredible journey through these institutions shaped who we are, sharpened our minds, broadened our perspectives. But it doesn’t, and shouldn't, define our entire existence. Your worth isn't dictated by the perceived prestige of your current role or the collective gasp it elicits. It's in the unique contributions you make, the integrity you uphold, the genuine passion you pursue, regardless of the brand recognition. Let your actions speak for themselves, not just for the name on your diploma. The greatest stories are often found when we define ourselves, rather than letting a label do it for us.